Stolen Vows

Unilateral Divorce is Unconstitutional

“Stolen Vows” by Judy Parejko  details the dirty legislative history behind the grievously mis-named legal travesty called “no fault” divorce and how it only thrives by legally discriminating against a class of U.S. citizens called Respondents.  The primary beneficiaries of this lucrative law: adulterers, predatory spouse-poachers, and the entrenched legal industry which profits indefinitely for years after the “putting-asunder” of what God has joined.

Losers: Ultimately, our once-great nation….taxpayers, churches, families, children, grandchildren, innocent spouses, long-marrieds near retirement, disciples (married to prodigals) who take the Lord Jesus Christ at His Word: (Luke 16:18) “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the one who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”

Reportedly, 80% of spouses dragged into “Family Court” by the one they trusted are forcibly divorced against their will (and against God’s will), increasingly after as long as 30 to 40 years of marriage. When this occurs, the unconstitutionality of this law makes a defense virtually impossible, and usually strips property, children and reputation away from the innocent spouse, especially if there’s any resistance shown by the “Respondent”  to the action, awarding the spoils to the one whose own guilt (or an adulterous ultimatum) initiated the divorce filing.


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9 thoughts on “Unilateral Divorce is Unconstitutional”

  1. SiFC, I don’t know if you have heard, but: you seem to have an ally in one consistently conservative voice for the family. I’m referring to Phyllis Schlafly, who yesterday and today has been a 2-day guest on Dr. James Dobson’s Family Talk radio broadcast. The title of her discussion is her recent book, “The Death of the American Family”. When speaking about the subject of “no-fault” divorce, she even corrected Dr. Dobson by agreeing with you that the proper way to refer to this condition is “unilateral divorce”. She is now the second public figure whom I have heard use this term in conversation / discussion. (You are the first!)
    I hope you and your readers receive this as encouraging news. For any interested readers, the original 2-days of broadcast may be found at:

  2. Aw, John – if you call me a “public figure” it might go to my head, then I’d be worthless to the Kingdom! (Phyllis, on the other hand, is a bona-fide public figure. ) – “Standerinfamilycourt”

  3. I would love to see the divorce laws changed! I feel that if one spouse is unwilling that a divorce should never be granted!

  4. I just went through an unwanted divorce…divorced against my will for the sake of adultery. The separation completely tore my family apart. The short end of this story is that I am standing in the gap for my marriage & family, trusting God for a miracle in our healing, reconciliation and restoration, ultimately a transformation. Thank you for publicly taking such a bold stand in defense of godly marriage & family! God bless you!

    1. Hello,
      Thank God I found this site. So very sorry for all of the injustice you & your Family suffer.
      Perhaps you may find some consolation through a group called and a book they discuss once a month called “The Gift Of Self” by Maria Pia Campanella of Palermo Italy. God heal & bless all. Judy’s book” Stolen Vows” is the first eye opener I read . This book ecpresses wgat many think& feel but cannot find proof or words Judy ckearly provudes. Joan D. Ford

    2. Same here. I didn’t want the divorce. I didn’t file. I still love my husband, and I don’t think there really IS such a thing as an “ex” spouse.

  5. So sorry to hear about that, Yvette. In our lawless society you are far from alone, but there’s a movement forming and growing of people who are determined to do something about it, with God’s help. If you aren’t following our FB page, please check it out.

    Here are a few resources you might find helpful:
    (1) Rejoice Marriage Ministries
    (2) Our blog “God’s Covenants and His Character (May, 2015)
    (3) The Facebook closed group: Covenant Marriage Standers
    (this group only admits and retains standers who have come out of all non-covenant relationships and are standing only for restoration of their original marriage – provided it was not with someone who has a living prior spouse.)

  6. The battle against unwanted Divorce is stronger in 2016. Let this be the most important issue in the Synod of Catholic Bishops. Should the Church offer advice , reparation , direction to those who have harmed Familes at least by reminding them a sincere apology may be of some consolation ??

    1. Our belated thanks for your comment Joan. We are a multi-faith page, but you can bet we’ve followed the Synods, Amoris Laetitia and the family-destructive actions of the current pontiff quite closely.

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